This Is Why A Strong Woman Doesn’t Need A Man

But still, we won’t need them. We will never need a man. We aren’t one part of a whole. We aren’t half of a person. We are a whole creature that doesn’t need someone to fulfill us, no matter what history and romance novels tell us. We can conquer the world on our own.

Of course it’s nice to have a man around. You feel secure, they help you and they show you how it is to live while always having someone on your mind. It’s nice to know that you are loved and that there’s always someone waiting for you. But through years of experience, we have learned to love ourselves and to be there for ourselves. We have learned that we are our own best friend and that no one can motivate us the way we can motivate ourselves.

Believe it or not, I do have a man in my life. I have a man who treats me right. Who treats me with respect and doesn’t want to lose me, just as much as I don’t want to lose him. But what will happen if I do lose him at one point? I never needed him to be happy in the first place, so I will probably be devastated for a while but it’ll get better the moment I decide to bring myself on my feet again.

I want him to be there. I want him to come home and crawl into the sheets with me. I want him to kiss me and show the world that he loves me, but I don’t need him to do all those things in order for me to continue my life. I will be perfectly able to live without him if it really comes to a separation.

You know, women aren’t what you thought them to be. A woman is a mother by choice, not by need. She is feminine because she wants to express how in love with her body she is. But never, I repeat never, to please a man.

That’s the most important lesson you can learn today, tomorrow and forever. Remember that we are perfectly happy even without you.