10 Amazing Tips To Play Hard To Get With A Guy
Playing hard to get is a science. You can’t just learn that overnight because it needs a lot of time and a lot of ‘victims’ to be a master of this discipline. There are women who play hard to get but they do it brutally by disrespecting any man who comes close and in doing so they lose them.
But on the other hand, there are women who know the right amount of being a bitch and acting distant and flirting with a guy so they can get what they want. Some of them only want a one-night stand while others want a long-term relationship. But no matter what their desire is, there are some strict rules every woman needs to follow if she wants to get the guy she likes. So stay tuned!
1. Tell him that you are busy but that he can buy you dinner
This is a strategy that always works. You are sending him a message that you won’t be available just when he wants but rather when you decide. You will look like a girl who is hard to get but yet giving him hope that something might happen between the two of you. And while he will be waiting for you, he will be super-excited and he will want to impress you the best he can. By doing something like this, you will have his heart and you will be able to do whatever you want with it.
2. Whisper something in his ear but don’t touch him
This is a deadly move so you better watch how you do it. He will feel that you are close enough to touch but he will still know that he can’t do that without your permission. While you are whispering something into his ear, be close enough with your lips so it looks like you will lick him but don’t do it. It will drive him crazy and he will fall madly in love with you. He will do anything to win you over and it won’t be a problem for him to go the extra mile for you.
3. Don’t answer his texts right away
If you answer his texts right away he will think that you are always available for him and that he can reach you at any time. Instead, leave him waiting a little bit. In this way you will create some tension and he will know that he needs to put in some extra effort if he wants to win you over. After an hour or two, you can text him back saying that you didn’t see his message and that it was nice for him to reach out. This is a hot and cold game so be smart about how you play it. The last thing you want is a guy who gives up on you.
4. Don’t reveal everything about your life
There is an old saying: ‘A woman without secrets is like a sky without stars’! That means that it won’t be interesting to him if you tell him your life story immediately. Wait until you get to know him better to tell him some important things. In the beginning, you can just tell him ordinary things that everyone knows, like your hobbies and about your job. If he is to be a part of your life, he needs to earn his place there, so wait until the right moment to reveal your darkest secrets to him.
5. Don’t tell him how you feel, but show some interest
Even if you think he is the man of your dreams, don’t tell him that right away. Instead, just smile and flirt with him so he sees that he has a chance with you. You need to play hard to get with a guy that you like and this is one of the best strategies. If you show just a little bit of interest he will want to chase you and in the end, that is what you want, right?
6. Tell him something about your night out with the girls, but don’t reveal everything
He doesn’t need to know how many friends you have or exactly what you did last night. You can be witty and tell him a story that is better than what really happened. Because of this, he will think that you are a very popular girl and that he is lucky to know you. Also, he will think that only an amazing guy can have you and he will work hard to satisfy all your wishes. It won’t be difficult for him to make your dreams come true because he will think that you are worthy enough.
7. Mention that you have male friends but explain that they are just friends
Tell him that you have male friends and that you often go out with them. Just make it clear that they are just friends with you and that you don’t want to have friends with benefits. Give him a chance to see that you are single and that he has a chance with you. That will boost his ego because he will think that you are still available and he will do anything to be with you. So be ready for a dozen red roses in front of your door early in the morning and cute notes on your desk while you are in the office. You just made him want to kill to be your boyfriend.
8. Don’t go to bed with him, just give him a kiss
And when I say kiss, I mean a kiss that will turn him on so badly that he will beg for another one. If you can’t stand it anymore and you want to sleep with him, one make-out session will probably satisfy you. The worst thing that you can do is to go to bed with him right away. If you do that he will think that you are an easy girl and that any man can have you and that is a very bad reputation and once you get it, it is very difficult to get rid of. Be smart and postpone sex. No problem, you will thank me later!
9. Don’t be clingy, but appreciate his efforts
There is something all guys hate and that is a clingy girlfriend. If you act all needy and clingy, he will soon tire of you and he will instead find a strong and independent woman. So to actually get him you need to act like a strong woman with a lot of self-esteem. Show him that you don’t need a man to complete you because you are already whole. If you do this, he will go crazy for you and he will fall so hard for you that he will do anything you wish.
10. Don’t rush into a relationship right away but give him hope
You should let him know that you feel good in your own skin and that you are not in a hurry to commit to someone. He should know that you are happy just the way you are and that he needs to go the extra mile to win you over. He needs to know that you are looking for someone special to take away your freedom and to settle down with you. Only then will he do anything that needs to be done for you to have a special man next to you, who will treat you like you deserve.
