You Shouldn’t Be The Only One Putting In All The Effort

You shouldn’t be the only one fighting for the relationship. Yes, every relationship needs time, patience and effort. It asks for a lot of investment and sometimes it is a real battle. But none of it makes any sense if you are the only one fighting, if you are the only one ready to make compromises, if you are the only one forgiving and making all the sacrifices.

Anything else means that your partner doesn’t care for you enough and that he is taking advantage of you. I know it’s painful but it’s quite clear that this man doesn’t love you as much as you love him and he never will.

And that shouldn’t be the case. You deserve a guy who will be ready to go the extra mile for you, a guy who takes care of your needs and a guy who will always put you first. You deserve a guy who won’t have any trouble putting his ego aside and meeting you halfway.

You deserve so much more. You deserve a guy who will love you the same way you love him, a guy who will match your efforts and who won’t make you feel like you are the only person in the relationship. Being with any other guy just means that you are settling for less.