If You Do These 7 Things, He’ll Cut You Off For Good

So I asked my guy friends for their opinions and I came up with a list of things which men hate when women do and possibly that is why they just disappear—although that is not an excuse for leaving and not saying a word.

1. Projecting insecurities onto him
Guys hate that. Most of them really want an all-together and independent woman who knows how to take care of herself. They don’t want to deal with your insecurities and it’s pretty unfair of you to drop them in his lap. He probably has his own issues he’s trying to deal with and he doesn’t need you to bomb him with yours.

Although a true relationship is supposed to be about sharing everything, including your problems, if you’re only at the beginning, keep your insecurities and your problems to yourself.

2. Thinking that you know everything
No one likes this, but the thing is that women sometimes do this unintentionally. I know that you only want the best for both of you and you believe your ideas to be great—and they probably are. But, no one likes a know it all. Even if you think that you have a better solution, you have to let him decide some things from time to time. It will make him feel important and he’ll know that his voice also matters in the relationship.

3. Losing it over small stuff
Men are more rational and less complicated than we are. They just can’t get some things as we do. They can’t understand that something that seems insignificant to them is so important to us. And because they can’t get that, we get angry and refuse to talk to them for a couple of days and then we come back to them because we finally realize that it’s not important to them and it probably never is.

But men see it this way: You got angry over something stupid and in a few days you came running back to him and saying that you’re sorry. Well, okay, but still, there is no excuse for ghosting someone.