If You Do These 7 Things, He’ll Cut You Off For Good

There is nothing more painful than when you get cut off by a man you thought loves you. That pain is unbearable and excruciating. It consumes you and you need a lot of time to go back to your normal self, to heal completely.

You need to work on getting back your self-esteem which was destroyed when he turned his back on you and left you. You need to find your self-love which you’ve lost because the breakup made you think you’re no good and that you’re unlovable.

You need to start believing in yourself again. It’s like learning to talk or walk all over again. It takes time.

It’s not the end of the world if your relationship isn’t working out for some reason and you want to wrap things up, but you’ll probably end it by giving the other person a reason, an explanation, some closure. You’re not just going to ghost them and disappear from their lives completely. That can destroy a person. Now they have you and the other moment they don’t, just like that. Even a sane person would get crazy!

I once went completely crazy. I dated a guy for some time and one day he just stopped communicating. It was like he erased me from his life. It’s a fucking cowardly thing to do and I still have unleashed anger toward him although a lot of time has passed.

It’s not the fact that we broke up. I mean, I was dumped before—I know it hurts and I know it takes time to heal. It’s the fact that he left without saying a word. He left me thinking I did something wrong, but he never told me what and I have no idea. It drove me crazy. It took me so much longer to get over him and honestly, I don’t think I’m still at the place I want to be—completely over him!