For The Guy Who Comes After Her Heartbreak

She’s not crazy, but she may get jealous at times. You need to be willing to understand why. If you’re not ready to make her feel like a priority, then you don’t deserve to be in her life at all. She will no longer be someone’s convenience. The self love she possesses these days is worth her walking away from anyone who doesn’t realize that. Don’t make the mistake of letting her walk away. You might have to remind her sometimes that she’s the only one you want, but don’t just tell her… show her. She needs more than words to feel the truth in anything because of all the empty promises she’s been told. Her fears are not irrational because she is only basing it on what she has been used to for so long. Be the man that changes that for her. I can promise you that anything you tell her, she won’t believe until she sees it happen. Please don’t feel like she is punishing you for the mistakes of those who came before you. She just doesn’t want to be disappointed again. She’s just trying to protect her heart because no one else ever has.

I’m not trying to scare you off or trying to give you reasons not to stay, I just want you to know that this is not a game for her—she is done letting people waste her time. So I am just trying to weed out the weak ones. You need to be able to handle the heat of a wildfire if you want your world lit up. She will be the most faithful, loving, loyal woman you’ll ever have by your side, but you have to be willing to work for it. Fight for her every day even after you feel like you have her and she will do the same for you. She just wants to be loved like she loves. She wants to know that she is worth it to someone, that she isn’t easy to walk away from and that the thought of leaving wouldn’t even be an option.