8 Adorable Signs He Wants You To Be His Girlfriend

It would be great if men came with an instruction manual. Then things wouldn’t be as complicated as they are. This way, you have to worry if he is only looking for a side-chick, a hookup and not a committed relationship with you.

Also, if he is good to you and gives and seeks attention, you still can’t be sure that he is serious about you. There are so many manipulative men out there that today you pretty much can’t trust anyone. If you let your guard down even for a second, you get played.

But, I’m going to do the best I can to help you decode those encrypted messages men send us on a daily basis—rom the way they act to what is actually going on around in their heads.

Of course, you have to get their side, too. A guy won’t tell you he likes you right away especially if he has just got out of a relationship or he has been hurt before. He’ll play it safe and hide it from you for a while until he is completely sure. The problem is everything else that goes around your head while he decides what to do.

1. He really wants to get to know you
He will not ask questions just for the sake of the conversation but for the sake of getting to know you better. Now, the tricky part is that even emotional manipulators want you to talk and they try to engage you in a conversation, but the purpose is completely different. They want you to open up, so they can find out as much information as possible to use against you.

But when you meet someone who genuinely cares about you, he will ask about your life and encourage the conversation because he really wants to know your interests and things that you do. He won’t just nod his head while you talk; he will participate in your conversation and show interest to know absolutely everything about you.

2. He’ll use inside jokes
He will do this all the time. He will tease you while you’re in a group of friends. And the catch is, he will use inside jokes that no one understands except the two of you. You see, the fact you have something personal, that you share something nobody has any idea about is a definite sign that he wants to have something more with you. He wants to be more than just a friend.

3. He’ll compliment you
And not only anytime—he’ll do it exactly then when you need it the most. A man who is interested in you or in love with you is a man who notices any changes you have in your behavior. You won’t be able to hide anything from him. And when he sees that your spirit is down and you don’t feel okay, he will compliment you and make you feel like a million bucks. He will know just what to say and how to say it. You’ll see. A man who doesn’t care would just walk away in the opposite direction and let you deal alone with your shit.

4. He will show his feelings
He won’t be scared to show you his vulnerable side. He won’t be scared to show how he’s really feeling because he trusts you and he wants you to trust him before he asks you to be his girlfriend. There will never be any bigger secrets between the two of you. I mean you don’t have to tell each other everything, white lies are allowed, but there won’t be any big harmful secrets. You can be sure of that. He will always let you know if something you did hurt or upset him, so you can take care of it right then and not sweep it under the rug until problems don’t have anywhere to disappear.

5. He won’t play games
He will never play you or trick you into doing something you don’t want to. He knows that you are an independent person and that he can’t change you. He likes you for who you are and any emotional manipulation is not even on the table. On the other hand, he is a man and real men face their problems. Boys hide their insecure faces behind various manipulations.

6. Protect you
He will always be there for you and make sure nothing bad happens to you. He won’t be following 2 inches behind you and acting possessively because he knows you need some personal space as we all do. But, if he sees that you feel threatened by someone or if you don’t know how to handle some problems, he will stand by your side and have your back. He will protect you, but respect you because he knows you are more than capable of protecting yourself at the same time

7. Impress you
As long as he is in love with you, he won’t stop trying to impress you. Since he has strong feelings for you, he really cares about what you think of him. If you are going to be his girlfriend, he wants you to think positively of him.

8. He’ll be open about his past
He won’t have any secrets with you because he wants a clean slate. He wants you to start from the beginning without any baggage. So, if he has anything to say, he’ll say it right away. He doesn’t want to risk you finding out things about his past once you are together.