7 Simply Adorable Ways That Will Make Him Obsessed With You

3. Shine with confidence
There is nothing sexier than seeing a woman who is bursting with confidence but just the right amount of it. No one likes women who walk with their heads way up in the skies. Too much confidence can hurt you. Find the middle ground. Feel good about yourself but not too good, if you know what I mean. Try to be humble, grateful and confident at the same time. Your confidence will attract him because you will shine with a light that is invisible to you and others but somehow men who are interested in you will see it and recognize it.

4. Tell him you respect him
The most important thing to men is that they need to feel appreciated and respected. He has to know that you don’t see him as unimportant but on the contrary, rather a very essential part of the community. He needs to know you respect his job and everything he does. In today’s world, it is so easy to feel unappreciated because most of us mind our own business and focus on the things that are important to us. So acknowledging someone’s hard work means a lot, especially to a man.

5. Be generous and kind
Let’s say that you two just met. Be kind to him, smile and laugh at his jokes even if they are not that funny. Don’t come off too strong or he might get scared and run away—yes, like a lost puppy. Believe me, guys are way more delicate than we think. At least the ones that are sane, and not the manipulative d-bags in disguise. Anyway, pay attention to the first impression you’re going to leave because even if you fuck something up and start all over again, that first impression won’t ever go away; it will stay remembered.