7 Signs You Are Nothing More Than His Arm Candy

All of you want to meet the love of your life at some point in your life, but the thing is that finding your soulmate can last forever. That’s why there is a trend nowadays where guys show off with some girls who they don’t actually love, but dating them is convenient at that time. They are with someone because they don’t want to be single and you all know that every relationship has different benefits.

But the most important thing that you should crave in a relationship is love and not something superficial like money or status. If you are in a relationship and you are not quite sure if your guy loves you or you are just his arm candy, check these signs and find out what his real emotions are.

1. He likes when you are all dressed up
Just think about it—a guy who loves you won’t mind if you go out with him wearing old jeans and a simple T-shirt but a man who considers you his arm candy will want you to be dressed to kill. In that way, he will be able to show off with you in front of his colleagues and his so-called friends and be proud for catching a girl like you. I know that it is normal to get dressed up sometimes but to be in tight dresses and high heels every day when you are with your man can be a little bit hard. In the end, he should love you for who you are and not for what you wear.

2. He doesn’t want to get to know you better
For him, it is only important that he shows you to his friends and family and that is it. He doesn’t want to know anything about your life, your hobbies or things that make you happy. When you talk, he doesn’t listen because it is more fun for him to surf the net. A guy like this is just using you and when he gets tired of you, he will just replace you with another woman. As simple as that.

3. You are not the only woman in his life
The ugly truth is that he will be with any woman who looks really good. In fact, that is the only reason he will be with someone, including you. He is not a man who can love because that is not his thing. He wants something else, like status, power and someone who he will use to show off with. And that is where you come in. He will use you as an ego boost and he will feel so good about it.

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4. The only reason he takes you out is to show off with you
If you had a feeling that your man is never taking you out to be alone with you but to show off with you in front of others, it can be a sign that he uses you as his arm candy. The thing is that he will introduce you to his friends and co-workers only so they can see how good-looking you are and how lucky he is to have a woman like you next to him. On events like that, he will be the only one talking while he will just expect you to nod your head to everything that he says.

5. He wants you to look attractive
Did you sometimes catch your man giving you advice about your clothing style? Did he ever try to tell you to choose something short, tight and sexy? If yes, it is a sign that he wants you to be attractive all the time so he can tell everyone how hot a woman he has. A man like this can’t understand that you sometimes don’t want to be all dressed up and that you want to relax. He wants you to always be perfect for showing and that is the most obvious sign that you are just his arm candy.

6. He is the dominant one
In a relationship like that, you won’t be the one who will decide because he will be the dominant one. He will tell you what to do, what to say and how to behave. He wants to have someone who will obey all his rules and not mind doing it. He will never ask you what you think about something and if you really want to go somewhere with him. He will treat you like you are the submissive one and like your voice doesn’t count. Before it gets nasty, I suggest you to run as far as you can from a man like this because he is not the one who will make you a happy and a loved woman.

7. He doesn’t put a label on your relationship
For him, your relationship is something that might end every second. He doesn’t want to put a label on what you have because he doesn’t feel good about that. Instead, he wants to be completely free and on the other hand, call you when he needs you. He never introduced you to his family nor does he have a plan to meet yours as well. That is a sign that he considers you as a trophy woman and that he will replace you with someone new when he gets bored of you.

7 Signs You Are Nothing More Than His Arm Candy