6 Signs Your Sex Life Is Beyond Perfect
Sex is an essential part of every relationship. Period. If the two of you have good communication and you are best friends but your sex life is not so interesting, your relationship might end before you even know it. I am not saying it is the most important thing, but it is one of the most important ones, especially for guys. He can be all sweet and loving at the beginning, but as your relationship develops, he will want to take it to a whole new level. Once you start experimenting with sex, you won’t probably know if you are doing some things right because your partner won’t tell you that.
Even if you are not good in bed, he will keep his mouth shut, not wanting to hurt you. But I know that deep down, you will be interested if your actions in bed were fun or not. To find out if you have a good sex life or it sucks, read these signs. Once you do, you will know if you are good or bad once and for all.
1. You feel totally comfortable in bed
If you feel comfortable in bed, not thinking about all that cellulite on your skin or some extra pounds that you gained, it means that your sex life is pretty good. Feeling good in your own skin is what matters the most when having sex, so if you don’t feel comfortable, you won’t be able to enjoy to the maximum. If you are one of the women that doesn’t sweat the small stuff and that concentrates more on her own pleasure, you can be positive that your sex life is beyond perfect.
2. You are not afraid to ask for some things in bed
If you feel okay with telling your partner to do some things that turn you on, it is a proven sign that you feel great in your own skin and that you truly enjoy sex. It means that you already know that your partner will do what you need so you don’t feel remorse for asking him to those things to you. On the other hand, you also do things that your partner wants and that you feel comfortable with. That is a sign that you two are compatible in bed and that you always have fun.
3. Both of you climax
If you don’t climax during sex, then something is not right. Maybe you are tired or you just didn’t feel like having sex at that moment, but you did that to please your partner only. There are a lot of factors that can affect whether or not you’re having an orgasm so you should know what they are and avoid having sex until you are ready.
But if you climax soon after starting to have sex, it is a sign that everything works fine for you. It means that you can still get turned on by your partner and that he can still satisfy all your desires. One more sign that you are doing much better than you think you are!
4. You are afraid that you will wake up your neighbors
When you have sex, everything falls apart—your bed falls apart, you are screaming so loud that in one moment you are trying to tell yourself that you shouldn’t be so loud because of the neighbors. And the next morning when you go out of your apartment, you are embarrassed to look those people in the eyes. The fact is that you were screaming because of high pleasure the whole night because you had multiple orgasms and you wanted to have sex more than once. One suggestion: next time, close all the windows and if you really have to scream, put your head into a pillow, so you don’t have to feel ashamed the day after.
5. After sex you feel drained but completely satisfied
You know that feeling when you finish with sex and you lie down on the bed, not even having enough energy to go to the bathroom to take a shower? Yes, that feeling! Well, congratulations because this is a sign that you did everything perfectly well and that you are satisfied with the sex you just had. If you feel like the happiest person alive, totally satisfied with your body and your way of thinking at that moment, you can see how good sex makes some amazing benefits to your life. So, keep up the good work!
6. You feel so damn sexy in bed
Is there a better sign of a perfect sex life than the fact that you feel so damn sexy in bed? If you feel sexy with your partner when you are playing under the sheets, it means that you are satisfied with your sex life and that you couldn’t wish for a better scenario to happen. And when your man looks at you with that seductive smile that is telling you that some kinky stuff is about to happen, you can’t do anything but go with the flow and enjoy things to the maximum.