7 Screaming Signs He Is Not Your Soulmate

Every single girl on this planet would want her love relationship to last but unfortunately, that is not possible every time. Sometimes girls have high expectations and when they get the man who turns out not to be like their dream man, they get disappointed.On the other hand, there are girls who think that they don’t deserve love, so they think any guy who likes them is good for them.

The most important thing in a relationship is to actually see whether the man you are with is truly your soulmate or you are just living in denial. I know it hurts letting someone go, but it is better to do that than to live in awful conditions. For all of you who are not sure whether you are dealing with the love of your life or with just one more man in your life, here are a few signs that the man you are dating is not your soulmate, even if you thought differently.

1. He doesn’t put you first
A man who doesn’t put you first is definitely not someone who is worth your love. If he doesn’t consider you a priority, chances are he won’t eventually start loving you like you deserve. A man who truly loves a woman will put her first and her happiness will be more important to him than his own. If your man continues doing things that you don’t like and always puts you last, maybe it is time to sit down and talk to him about your future plans. At least you will then know whether he is serious about you or you are just a fling to him.

2. There is no sexual attraction
Sexual attraction is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you feel like there is zero sexual attraction between the two of you, you should know that something is not right. Couples who love each other can’t take their hands off of each other but if you feel that there is no more fire in your bedroom, you should be worried. Maybe your partner is seeing another girl who gives him all that you don’t. Or maybe he wants to break up with you, so he doesn’t want to have sex with you so that you don’t get extra-attached. Whatever the reason is, it is not good, so you should be open about that with him.

3. You don’t feel comfortable around him
Even if you are constantly telling yourself that you are a true match and that you should feel comfortable with him, you don’t. When you get home to him, you feel like all your positive energy has drained away and you feel down at short notice. You also feel that with him, you can’t be who you truly are and that you feel much better when he is not around. This is a red flag sign that the two of you are not meant to be and the sooner you break up with him, the happier you will be.

4. You feel that he is not your person anymore
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If he is not the one who you will call when something bad happens or when something good happens, it means that he is not that important person in your life. And we all know that your love partner should be the most important person in our life.

If you feel that you can’t trust him and that he won’t keep your secrets safe, then you should talk to him openly about your relationship. You should tell him all that bothers you and if he is not willing to change, tell him that you will have nothing to do with him anymore. If he doesn’t react to this wake-up call, pack your bags and find your happiness in another place.

5. He doesn’t put any effort into your relationship
If you feel like you are the only one trying, it is definitely a bad sign. Both partners should make an equal effort in a relationship and if one of them doesn’t do that, there is definitely a problem. A man who doesn’t want to make an effort for you and for your future is someone who is not interested in you and who doesn’t see you as a permanent partner. Maybe he doesn’t want to commit and the only things he wants are sex and fun. If that is what you want too, then okay, but if you want something more, it is time to talk to him.

6. He never compliments you
If you feel that your man never compliments anything that you do, it means that something is not right. A man should compliment his woman from time to time, especially when she dresses up or when she reaches some of her goals. If your man never does any of these things but he wants you to compliment him, you can conclude that he is just narcissistic and that a relationship with him is just a waste of time. He will never give you the love you deserve and you will never be a truly happy woman with him.

7. You think about another man
If you are thinking about another man and all the things he could do for you, that is definitely a sign that your current partner is not your soulmate. You are just stuck in that relationship and you are afraid to move on. You may think that it is better to stay with him because he will change but that won’t happen. If he doesn’t see you suffering, it is time to move on. Stay away from him and show him what he has lost by letting him go.