6 Things That Happen When You Meet A Good Guy After Escaping A Cheating Bastard

What to say other than it sucks on so many different levels. You’ve been betrayed and humiliated. You feel rejected and unwanted. He didn’t want you but he didn’t have the guts to tell you, so he went behind your back and cheated on you.

You’re stuck in a rut trying to overcome your insecurities, the fact that you’ve been betrayed and you’re trying to restore your trust in love again. Is it even possible?

Is it possible to forget that the guy you’ve lain next to, the guy you’ve kissed good night, the guy you’ve let get so close to you, the one you opened up to, can throw all that so easily away for someone else? Did he ever love you at all?

But, when it’s all over, after some time, you don’t even care if he loved you or not. You accept the fact he is an ass. You somehow deal with your destiny. You accept that it has happened. Now, you have to learn to live with it. You accept the pain you’re feeling and you know it’s not a waste to cry the tears that are rolling down your face because you hope it will get better someday.

He made you build huge walls around yourself.

Your guard is up because you know there is still a chance that yet another cheating bastard will come into your life and do exactly the same thing to you and you’ll get hurt again. But, do you have any strength to allow yourself to be hurt again? I know you’re scared that you’re not able to make it next time.

That’s why you guard yourself—you’re protecting yourself. No one wants to feel that amount of pain and not all can take it. But the thing is that no one knows how much they can take until they experience it.