5 Reasons Why Only The Happily Single Find True Love

What makes us choose the right partners? A couple of decades ago, partners were chosen because sex was only acceptable within marriage, so people took every opportunity there was to marry. Kind of sad, right? Well, today the problem is that people are settling down with people who aren’t compatible with them because they don’t feel comfortable with being alone. When being single feels like a burden and people start nagging about how we should be married by a certain age, we start believing that there was nothing else we should do at that moment but pursue a partner. Which, of course, leads to bad decisions and poor choices in partners. So, why is it that only the happily single people find true love these days?

1. Your happiness doesn’t depend on others
When you’re in a happy relationship with yourself, you don’t expect anything from anyone and all your time and energy goes into pleasing your own needs. You have so much more energy and a free mind to do whatever you want. When you’re single, you have all this time on your hands that you can dedicate to whatever you want. This is also the reason why the happily single have a fulfilled career life because they pursue everything that makes them grow as a person.

2. You have a better sense of judgement
When you’re happily single, you have a better sense of judgement regarding your future partner. You’re not tempted to run into the next relationship because being single feels awkward. You take your time because you need to know that the next partner is really going to be worthy of you and your time—after all, you’re giving up your happy single life for him. There’s no way you’re going to let someone toxic come in and ruin it!

3. Self-improvement.
I’m not saying that when you’re in a relationship you don’t have time to improve, but rather that in a relationship, it’s hard to focus on yourself when you need to incorporate someone else’s wishes into your life. So, when you’re single you have all this extra time on your hands to dedicate it to a new course, a new hobby, something that gives you the power to become a better version of yourself.

4. You’re more attractive
So, it’s not a mystery that a woman who’s single and happy automatically becomes more attractive to men. When you’re in a bar just having fun and dancing with your friends, all eyes will be on you because you couldn’t care less about if those men liked you or not. This also gives you a variety of men to choose from. You can take your time to sit down and get to know them before you choose to start a relationship.

5. You are your own support system
When you’ve been single for quite some time, you know all those ups and downs you’ve gone through and you’ve survived all alone. You didn’t need anyone on your side to pat your back because you did it yourself. When you become your own support system, you start to realise that you actually don’t need anyone else in your life but yourself, and that’s why you don’t lower your standards for a relationship. So, when you start a relationship, you’re not clingy and asking your partner to fulfill your every need.