One Woman Doesn’t Have To Be Another One’s Enemy

One Woman Doesn’t Have To Be Another One’s Enemy

I always knew that there were women full of jealousy, but I didn’t know that there are some who are ready to crush you to seem better. I really thought that this appears in movies only or perhaps during puberty when teens are prone to making various pranks on each other. I thought this until I gained my confidence.

While I didn’t stick out of the crowd – I was great. When people started to notice me – I became the worst.

All of you reading this, please, DON’T BE A WOMAN LIKE THAT!

It doesn’t make any sense to think that another woman can hurt you by existing. When did you see a confident and successful woman that is afraid of another one? You never did. Because she has no reason to be, and neither do any of us.

We all have a path and a choice, and there is enough space for everyone under this big blue sky.

There are various types of women now that we are talking about jealousy, starting with those who think that all women are near them just to steal their man. They are all waiting in a line just to get him.

Or those who think that we want to steal their job or life since we asked for advice.

Things sometimes go like this: the more successful you are, the more suspicious you become to women.

Yes, you don’t deserve that place, you should be degraded and everything just because SHE knows a million reason for you not to be here. Sure. Although she never has arguments nor does she have proof, she will claim that it is the way she says it is.

This seems too stupid even when you are just reading it, then why would you do it?

But, we women know that there are women out there that do love to ruin other people’s careers. It’s about humanity.

Ir doesn’t matter what your job or sex is, if you are a HUMAN, you will help everyone and cherish everyone’s success and happiness. You won’t act like you are the smartest when you see someone that’s unhappy nor will you think about other person’s happiness as something that may harm you.

I would love if women could be supportive to each other. If we didn’t look at each other as rivals, we would help each other more and become stronger than ever.

Imagine how many women would be in important positions if other women believed in the power of empathy.

Let’s wake up and start to appreciate other women doing hard jobs, women who are being dragged down all of the time.

Let’s appreciate women who want to be educated and change the world. Let’s appreciate those who do art and create beautiful work. Let’s appreciate those that raise our children, a new generation of people.

Let’s appreciate one another in the best way possible and fight for the positions we deserve.

We deserve to be respected at work, school, town. We don’t deserve to be judged for the way we look, dress and so on.

We don’t measure a woman’s success by the number of men that she dated, but by the way she acts when she needs to help and empower. Let’s not put labels on each other.

April Lee