Don’t Date Him If You Hope To Change Him

There is this guy you’ve met but you don’t know what to think of him and of your potential relationship with him. Let’s get one thing straight—you don’t have any doubts about your feelings for this man. You like him very much and you are even falling in love with him hard. This guy gives you butterflies you haven’t felt in a long time and you feel like you can’t keep your hands off him. But you also know that this is more than passion and physical attraction. Yes, this man attracts you sexually but there is something more going on between you two. You are also attracted to his brain and he has provoked different emotions inside of you. Therefore, you’ve caught yourself picturing a serious relationship with this guy and planning a life with him.

But on the other hand, you are also worried. Although you have strong feelings for this guy, you are still aware of the things around you and you can look at your relationship with him realistically. You know that you and this man are quite different and you can see some of his personality traits and behavior patterns that you don’t like. Although you know that you both have your flaws and you don’t expect to have a perfect boyfriend because you don’t think of yourself as perfect either, there are still some things about this guy that you don’t know if you can accept or if you’ll ever be able to accept. You are simply afraid that the two of you won’t get along and that you are not compatible, as much as you don’t want that to be.