Act Like A Lady In These Situations
Some women are known as ladies; they watch how they sit, eat, drink, what will they say and how they behave in society. On the other hand, some women react more extremely when they do certain things. Then people comment whether this is appropriate or not suitable for a woman. If a man is offended, he will fight back, sometimes even with a blow. Our society will justify his reaction. Somehow it’s related to men. If a woman returns with the same words as she received in the quarrel, it will still cause a burning reaction. People advise us not to allow somebody to attack us for no reason and so on, but there are several ways always to stay a lady, but still be dominant in such situations.
IGNORE PUBLIC INSULTS
If someone harasses you by always talking about you or talking next to you and calling you names or making fun of you – DO NOT RESPOND THE SAME. Ignorance is the best way to defend yourself in public. People who provoke you in the company of others deliberately want to trigger a burning reaction, so they can say later that you are evil or uncultivated. People will remember your actions, even though you aren’t the one who started arguing.
DON’T RAISE YOUR VOICE IN A QUARREL
Quarrels bring the worst in us. Sometimes, we are ready to break down everything in front of us, to break all the shelves, dishes or punch everything around them, and yell as hard as we can. This is never the solution! Although it is difficult to remain calm in such situations, you have nothing from shouting. People who are continually yelling are insecure, and it’s their only way to get noticed. In such cases, answer with the same tone. Believe it; people are even more nervous when you do this, and they show who they are!
DON’T COMMENT YOUR EX-BOYFRIENDS
Men have a disgusting habit: to talk bad about women who leave or reject them. Most often, their insults are based on her physical appearance, or she is described as a stupid person. Also, because of his ego, the man is going to invent a story that he has left the woman, not the other way around. Of course, the story will finally come to the women as well. In such situations, don’t return with the same measure. There is no need to talk about your past together and whether it was disgusting because it looks repulsive. People will listen to you, but they will chew you up later and ask WHY WERE YOU WITH THIS PERSON IF HE WAS LIKE THAT? What we talk about other people – tells a lot about us. So, if you hear some gossip spread by a former partner – don’t worry. This is the proof of how to hurt his ego is.
DON’T START A DEBATE ON SOCIAL MEDIA
It’s immature to see girls writing bad things about each other on Facebook, and they used to be friends. Why do you need it? If someone has already started this, you don’t have to continue. Stay restrained, because there is no end to this. People will comment, each will have a smart solution, and you will probably calm yourself in a month and keep on socializing.
