6 Things Women Unconsciously Do That Can Slowly Kill Their Marriage

Some women sometimes don’t think about what kind of impact their actions and their words have on their husbands. They think that their man has to be with them and get along with everything they decide just because they think that is the best choice. Well, sorry to burst your bubble but that is not the way it goes. Guys, just like women, should decide about the important things in their lives. Just think about it—if you keep deciding about everything in your marriage, what is the role of your husband anyway? Doesn’t he has enough brains to think of some solutions and of how to handle things?

In that way, you are just making it easier for him and on the other hand, you carry all the burdens of your relationships completely alone. That is not the way it should go and the sooner you realize that the easier it will be for you. In case you were wondering what kind of things women do that can slowly kill their marriage, I prepared a list of the most common things all women do in a relationship. So stay tuned!

1. They use bad words to make their partners feel bad
When there is a problem, some women like to swear and say bad things to their husbands. In this way, a woman feels better because she got rid of all those toxic feelings that were bottled up inside her and on the other hand, a husband feels hurt because he thought that his woman loves him and that some small problems in their marriage won’t bother her. She uses all bad words to belittle him, make him feel ashamed and guilty of things. And no matter how much she feels remorse after doing all that, she can’t change the fact that she was mean.

2. They give the silent treatment
This is the worst thing that can happen in a marriage. If there is a certain problem, it should be solved. You won’t get anything by keeping your mouth shut. In that way, you will just make things worse and no one will be happy. When there is a problem in a marriage, no matter how big it is, you need to sit down and calmly talk to your partner. If he is the one who doesn’t want to talk, at least you will know that you tried. The worst thing is to be mad at each other and not talk but think about the fight all the time. That is just something that drains all your positive energy and gives you nothing good in return.

3. They disrespect their husband’s opinions
If you have a problem and you ask your husband for help, he will definitely offer you some solutions. Maybe some of them won’t be things that you would like to do but instead of telling him that he is an idiot for thinking like that, thank him for his effort to help you. Don’t forget that he just tried to make you feel better and I don’t think you should make him feel bad now. So, respect his opinion in every opportunity and don’t forget to tell him that you appreciate his help.

4. They are undermining their husband’s authority
In every relationship there is always a person who is more dominant than the other one. If both partners are okay with that, then they live normally like that. But the problem occurs when a wife thinks that she is the dominant one and undermines her husband’s authority. First, she tells him to handle something and when she is not satisfied with the final result, she blames him for doing things like that. That is totally the wrong approach and I can bet that there is no pure love and happiness in a marriage like that.

5. They are ruining their husband’s spirits
Some women think that everything they do is the best for their families and that their husbands can’t get such amazing results like them. So, for every single thing that a man does, a woman like this will say that it is wrong and that it has to be better. She always convinces her husband that he should do things by her rules and that he is not smart enough to make some important decisions. In the end, when men can’t put up with that kind of behavior anymore, they simply leave. And then women wonder what the reason of divorce was!

6. They are neglecting their husbands
It can be emotional or physical neglect but anyway that it happens, it is not healthy. Some of the most important foundations for a successful marriage are enough attention to partners. If you don’t spend some quality time with your man and if you don’t have regular sex with him, you can bet that he will find someone who will give him everything that you are not. So next time when you decide not to talk to your man, just think about another woman who would be blessed if she can spend some time talking to him. When you feel that, you will realize that there is no sense in holding grudges forever and that the best way to live a happy marriage is to give another person their space to develop.