6 Things That Happen When You Meet A Good Guy After Escaping A Cheating Bastard

You don’t even know how strong you are, not until life forces you to bring that strength out to the light.

He made you doubt everyone around you.

You’re panicking as soon as someone tries to come near you. Right that instant, all those lies and cheating flash in front of your eyes like it was happening that moment and that’s when you black out and push everyone away.

You feel safe when you’re alone. You feel safe when you keep everyone at arm’s length because you know they can’t get near you enough to hurt you like he once did.

He made you think where you went wrong.

Was it your fault? Could you have done anything differently? Just stop obsessing with these questions. And no, it wasn’t your fault—it was his fault alone. Even that other woman he cheated on you with doesn’t have anything to do with it. Maybe she is just another victim like you are.

Because men who cheat are men who lie—men who manipulate others into getting what they want. Who knows, maybe he promised her he will dump you and be with her. Maybe he promised her he will marry her because he loves her eternally and at the same time, he was feeding you the same lies he fed her.

He ruined you for the love that is waiting for you.

You’re not going to be the same anymore, at least not for some time. You’re not going to trust men anymore and you’re always going to be looking for ulterior motives and moments where they could have lied to you—even if they didn’t or had no intention of doing so.

But you can’t keep going around in circles. You have to allow yourself to trust people again. You have to allow yourself to love again because although you may not think that, not all men are the same. They are not all cheaters, liars, and manipulators.

You’ve already shown that you are strong and that you can survive anything. Go to the next level. Let someone love you for real because you deserve it.