5 Things To Do When An Emotionally Unavailable Man Keeps Coming Back
Here are 5 things emotionally unavailable men do after a break-up:
1. Playing the victim
He will go around telling the story of how you’re the bad guy and he did nothing except love you the best way he knew. He will tell that story to anyone with a set of ears and tits. Poor lad, he did nothing wrong and you ended it out of the blue. He’s simply doing this so he can keep his reputation. In this case, he has no intention of winning you back, instead he’s trying to make you snap and confirm his story.
The best thing you can do here is ignore all of it. You and your friends know the truth and that’s all that matters. You know that you did your best and nothing happened. You know that you tried but he refused to do the same. So, don’t give him the pleasure of winning once more. Ignore his lying ass and let those poor girls find out the truth the hard way. They won’t believe you anyway, even if you told them, he’s that good at his games.
2. Pushing your buttons with jealousy
He will rub his new girlfriend in your face until it starts driving you crazy and when you text him, asking about it, he will calmly inform you that your relationship is over. You two have nothing to talk about, you moved on and so did he. He will make you wonder what the hell is the truth and what’s not.
Let me tell you, happy, grown-up people don’t fuck over their exes. They don’t play games and parade around with their new arm candy. And you know that he’s doing exactly that. Give yourself a break and let him play all the games he wants. You’re better off without him anyway. Embrace your single life and this new opportunity life gave you.
3. Rebounding
Moving on to the next set of organs needed to boost his little ego is nothing more than a need for him. You see, if he doesn’t find someone soon enough to boost his confidence, he needs to face the hell he put you through and actually think about his actions for a second. And that’s something he’s not familiar with. Thus, rebounding.
If you add the jealousy games to this, then you have a winner! An emotionally immature man who could put Barney Stinson to shame. Consider yourself lucky here, you dodged a bullet in a way. It doesn’t mean it hurts less but it means that life gave you lemons for you to make a whisky sour.
Disclaimer: Alcohol is not the answer but it sure as hell helps to solve some of life’s mysteries. Or create new ones. It’s fun, either way.
