10 Signs He’s Trying To Control You

8. Telling you you’re unworthy
He probably told you a couple of times that you need to earn his love with ‘good’ behavior. But the worst part is that, even if you do everything that he says, he still keeps on acting like you’re unworthy of him and his love. He makes you feel like you’re the one to blame, because you are ‘too much’ or ‘not enough’.

9. Selfish sex
Even if he does give you his attention during sex and he satisfies you, he wants you to tell him how great he was. But usually all he does is take, take, take. He doesn’t want to make you feel loved or appreciated during sex but rather for you to give him pleasure that doesn’t mean anything to you. He’ll also probably ask you to do weird things in bed that you would never do under normal circumstances.

10. Pressuring you
Pressuring you into anything is bad but what he’ll do is pressure you into bad behavior. There is a high possibility that he already asked you to smoke cigarettes, drop out of school, disobey your parents, drink alcohol and the list goes on and on. This just tells you that he needs to feel in charge and that you’ll do whatever he asks you to.