10 Signs He’s Trying To Control You

5. Spying
He will consciously go to places where he knows he’ll see you. You will always feel his eyes on you and he won’t give you the freedom to be yourself because he’s always judging your every move. He’ll take your phone without knowing and go through your texts so he knows exactly what you’ve been up to and to whom you’ve been speaking. And God forbid if he finds out that a man has been texting you, even if it’s someone like a co-worker.

6. Disrespect
Respect? Well, he does not have this word in his dictionary. He simply doesn’t want to respect you, your wants or needs. If you require alone time, time for yourself where you can simply sit down for a while and take a breath from the world, you won’t get it because he’ll accuse you of something stupid like cheating. He might even play the victim, telling you that you don’t want to spend time with him or anything else along those lines.

7. Exhausting arguments
Here he comes again with his need to yell at you, accusing you of something that you probably haven’t done, or even if you have, it’s probably something extremely insignificant. But he makes a scene, maybe even in front of other people, and he continues on fighting with you until you get so exhausted that you just give up on the argument completely.